Chapter 66 · Quick Fire
Active Listening: seek first to understand
Question 1 / 10Press 1–4
What's the published recipe for the "then to be understood" half of Habit 5, in order?
- 1Logos, ethos, pathos (lead with logic)
- 2Ethos (character and credibility), Pathos (emotional connection), Logos (logic) — in that order; skipping the first two is why well-reasoned arguments fail
- 3Charisma, charm, conclusion
- 4Speak loudly and repeat yourself
Habit loop
- Learn
Finish this step. - Plan
Decide the next sitting. - Do
Carry one part into action. - Reflect
Log what changed. - Teach
Pass one point on.